Posts tagged ‘letter-writing’

August 6, 2013

Two Letters For My Husband

Letter I

Dearest My Love,

The mere fact that I miss writing to my dearest husband thus this loving gesture.

In the first place, it is not easy to convey these words even in a piece of notebook. I wouldn’t even know if you’re going to read this or even click your inbox to open my highlighted message.

But hey, I am writing this with the thought of you regardless of being read or not, or simply being ignored. Among the three, whichever happens, I wouldn’t mind at all. But, or course, in my case as a wife, I would always prefer the positive assumption which is the first one.

It really scares me writing this note or even the thought of sending it without the assurance of being read or replied to. I was really outgrown by this feeling because at the back of my mind there’s always something that pushes me away from even just dropping you some lines.

Well, sending happy thoughts for my husband won’t hurt, anyway. Life must go on regardless of the situation. Writing is indeed a gateway to freedom. Or perhaps, it’s a freedom itself. So here I am writing for the love of it, for the love of my husband, encompassing all sadness and with sheer gratitude to life.

Here, just thankful and blessed we’re alive because there’s no such thing as line to heaven.

Yours truly,

Your Wife

Letter II

Dearest Beloved,

‘Regardless.” It’s a matter of maintaining a certain thing despite of an obvious situation.  In our case, I opted to maintain loving my husband regardless of everything.  It’s all about continuity of such devotion, or whatever you may call it.  Writing you a note even just through this is one of its manifestations and I am more than just happy to be able to do so.

Yeah, I am really happy, not even a word can fully grasp the meaning upon reading your reply.  And with that I am so thankful and honored.

I am just glad that I still have this feeling of happiness when being read by someone who holds a special place in my heart.  A very simple gesture from a long distance beloved simply means the world to me.

How are you?  I don’t know, perhaps it’s a wrong question or what.  But I’d like to know what you’ve been up to since it’s been a while.  Maybe this is really an inappropriate question to ask.  You can just ignore it, anyway.

With me, it’s still work, school, my crafts and poetry.  Lately, I was just excited that I was able to write poetry for children.  Though, some just needed further editing in order to come up with effective literary pieces. At least, for the meantime, I was able to conceptualize the story lines, revisions and other essential developments may be done later on.  I just felt lucky enough to have produced them in between jobs and all.

Missing so much this idea of being read by my Beloved… I miss your critical way of thinking.  I miss our discourses on random things and even on little ideas that come in a handy for the sake of enlightenment. Even your critical interrogations, they maybe too ‘bold’ to handle, but then, how else I’m going to get over it, coz, hey, it’s my husband’s – just simply precious moments.

I Love you, Dearest.



October 13, 2012

Freeing The Writer Within

Are you one of those who crave the thoughts of writing and yet, don’t seem to know how to start? Writing is very much rewarding. It helps your veins take stressful thoughts into the deep pit and seek the windows of refreshing and recharging outlets.

On the other hand, especially for the gentlemen, you don’t want your rival(s) to sway your way behind them when he has been winning your would-be-girlfriend’s heart with his pages of love renditions, right? This is head-cracking when you know you are almost at the finish line fishing for her precious Y-E-S.

Corny as it may seem, but the aforementioned scenario is still one of the most discussed subjects – love, in letter writing between two individuals who burned in a compassionate affair, whether you want to believe this or not. Nest to it is friendship. (My gratitude to those who still believe in the power of letter writing, despite of the interference of the electronic mail.) Truly, nothing can be compared to the most effective tool in moving one’s soul.). We write letters about these subjects to express our feelings toward things we are very much bothered, concerned or occupied with.

Writing is a self-expression. We write to communicate ideas and to “soothe the cares and lift the thoughts of other persons.” Whatever you are, whoever you are, no exemption exists, especially in this field of writing –letter writing. Here, the reader does not only read the lines (in the epistle or missive–other names for letter) and absorb the thoughts containing the letter, but also reading the writer himself/herself.

If you are still learning this craft, you can still learn how to write perfectly, at least with mechanism. It takes a long process to be a writer, even just simply making a letter. Most of all, you must have the urge inside to scribble into the lines the thoughts which you may have in mind. It is called the passion to write, and first thing is you have to develop  and continue this craft simultaneously.

In an old book titled, Writing Down The Bones (Freeing The Writer Within), author Natalie Goldberg writes: “Place where you are writing what you mind actually sees and feels, not what it thinks it should see or feel.”

           “The aim is to burn through to first thoughts to the place where the energy is unobstructed by social politeness or the internal censor, to the place where you are writing what your mind actually sees and feels, not what it thinks it should see or feel.”

Goldberg’s pointers for making the best billet-doux:

            Just keep your hands moving and writing.  Don’t pause to reread the line you just wrote.

            Don’t cross out. That is editing as you write. Even if you put down something you didn’t mean to say, leave it for the moment. Don’t worry about spelling, punctuation, and grammar. Don’t even be concerned with staying within the margins and lines on the page.

              Lose control.  Let your feelings speak for yourself.

             Touch a nerve.  If something comes up in your writing that is scary or naked, dive right into it. It probably has lots of energy. After you’ve made your rough draft of everything you want to say, begin improving on it without appearing colorless. Purge all unnecessary words from each sentence.

             Be original. It’s easy to slide into clichés in a love letter, don’t. Include appropriate quotations, but always name their author (e.g., “When I think of what your love has done for me, I remember the words of Elizabeth Barret Browning: “The face of all the world is changed, I think since I heard the footsteps of thy soul.”

             Be cautious in the beginning stages of romance. Effusive love letters have killed relationships.

             Time it right. Don’t send love letters on a birthday, anniversary, or when you are quarreling. Like all forms of unbridled affection, a mushy note is most effective when it comes as a surprise.

Goldberg’s pointers are simply the basic backbones in writing. These are the ideas that can simply guide you in allowing words to capture your feelings and your thoughts. Let your feelings come out and be read. Ideas are meant to be expressed, read, known and most of all, journalized in any way we can. In this digital era of ours, every word to express our emotions are meant to be captured, documented and the best of all is to be remembered through our writings.

Identify your self through your own words. Find life in the universe of writing.